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On human behaviour

Something struck me as I was working with someone recently. And the person pointed out that the feedback he got is the same thing that we had discussed a few years ago. This despite the fact that the circumstances had changed, the nature of work was different, the culture was different, the role was better, the future was better - indeed every possible dimension of the situation was diametrically opposite to what it was when he first decided to work on the behaviour.

And today, few years later, all other things had changed, but the same behaviour was pointed out.

Coming close on the heels of the story of industrial transformation - this story of human behaviour struck me as a great example - of how difficult it is to make changes to ones own behaviour and how it is a studied process that takes quite a lot of determined conscious effort.

And as I thought about it I realized that I have encountered this many times in my career both for myself and hearing other talk/recount their own experiences.

What I also realized that often we let circumstances blindside us (circumstances are good, behaviour pattern has vanished - circumstances are bad, behaviour pattern is back) when it comes to really getting to the core of human behaviour.

Yes, change is not easy in general, changing ones own behaviour all the more so. 

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